Clitoris Massage, Alternative Sensational Sex

Massage of the clitoris, sensational skills which you can try when having sex with a partner. Many couples use a little trick on the vulva and clitoris before intercourse. If you really want to impress your partner, try to give more attention by making a massage on her clitoris. Couples who have a permanent physical disability is only temporary and can take advantage of massage the clitoris. Pregnant women may experience increased sexual desire and orgasm, but they realize that they can not do from vaginal sex. Couples who experience paralysis may not be able to perform physical movement during sex. Impotent men can still have the desire to provide sexual satisfaction to her partner and orgasm. Realize that sex also can live in without having an erection and have sex.

Where Her Clitoris Location?

Before the massage course you need to know where the clitoris couples, such as what and how your taste when it is weak or in the erect state. There is one way to learn it by doing the examination.

By using light relief, ask your partner take off her clothes or maybe he wants to keep wearing comfortable clothes. Have him lay on a bed, sit in a chair, or sitting on the bed while reclining on some pillows placed at the threshold of the bed.

Make sure that you memili ki an easy entrance to her vulva, and make sure you both feel comfortable. You also can ask him to sit between your legs, with a still face each other.

What is the distance and the light you need, a flashlight shining on her vulva can help you to see everything clearly. Maybe a mirror upright can also be involved if your partner wants to see her vulva and clitoris and what you are doing.

Begin to check her vulva normally, with the outer labia (outer lips) at rest. Be careful to check everything with your fingers. Stroked and then squeeze. Notice the softness of skin, color and texture of her skin. Touch her vulva with your palm, your fingers and adjust the size of his body. If your partner has a lot of hair, you can cut it with scissors.No need to shave the pubic area.

Gently move your fingers spread the outer labia. Check what's inside. Get to know the inside of the labia, clitoris and urethra and vaginal opening. Invite your partner involved by asking him to help hold the outer labia to an open, using one or both hands, it would make her feel involved and more familiar with the area sensuality.

If you are unable to recognize her clitoris, ask him to show on your location. Since there are many differences in genital anatomy, several individual structures that may not be easily recognizable, both for men and women.

There are women who have no part in the labia or just one part. Well-developed clitoris will be easily visible, but many are very small and hidden by surrounding tissue that may be only women who know where to find out where the most sensitive in touch.

The first time you find her clitoris, try to identify all the different parts. Stem \ gain, erectile tissue, and head \ foreskin. Depending on the size and tightness of her hood you probably can not be pulled further to expose the clitoral tissue.

If it is indeed a problem, you can feel it from under her hood. If a small erektilnya network, you can only feel the shaft of her clitoris while he is erect, but not the network itself erektilnya. There is a rod that is thin and hard to detect.

In this case, you can only recognize it when you feel it when a stiff (erect) between the tip of your fingers. Maybe your partner can guide you when handling erektilnya network at the end of your fingers if you can not feel them. Gentle when checking clit because most are highly sensitive.

Watch and learn

The next step for the beginner or as a warm-up for those of you who have experienced partner masturbating to orgasm.

Awalilah slowly, to show a touch different, the pressures that he hoped for and frequency of every touch. So you can understand what she likes and also become more responsive.

Need a lot of practice masturbation and repetitive that you can be as good as him like when he did it himself. Masturbating to orgasm before you begin the massage to help dmembuatnya more mood and make more responsive as well as the existence of sexual stimulation.

There are women that their genitals are very sensitive after orgasm, so you have to divert to other areas on the body massage for several minutes before starting again massaging her clitoris. Some women can experience orgasm only once in the beginning, so do slowly and try to make her feel comfortable. You can ask your partner to masturbate in front of you, this can help you find a more appropriate area of the clitoris, but do not force him to do that if indeed he is reluctant to do so.

Masturbation in front of your partner you are perfectly normal, many women who do it.Masturbation is not only the activities of one person. You can not make a mistake or fool yourself and think will lose the intimacy that you experience when you masturbate alone.

Clitoral Sensitivity
Sensitivity of the clitoris was very varied in women with one another. There are women who experience pain if their clitoris is touched directly and a woman with a clitoris that is not sensitive to touch at all. Others may require a light touch in the beginning but it took a touch stronger so that they reach orgasm.

The best beginning is to do a light touch and then slowly increase the amount of pressure. Observe the movement of his body and his voice, to see the intensity of your stress. Do not squeeze her clitoris is too tight and aggressive. Some women prefer a strong squeeze at the time of orgasm, but talking with him first before you actually try it. Tickled can be an indication of anxiety or because of a very soft touch, let her breathe more deeply and calmly.

Depending on the sensitivity of your partner's clitoris and the number of natural oils, you may need to use additional lubricant oil before starting the massage. First, try without lubricant oil, but if she pulls back or tell him so sensitive or do not feel anything, use many layers of oil on the entire vulva. Use oil-based liquid lubricant, you can also use the new sexual silicone oil. When I first tried to massage the clitoris add lubricating oil on your hands if necessary. Maybe at the beginning you will feel reluctant to touch her clitoral glans directly without giving the oil in your fingers.

Wearing rubber gloves or gloves made of vinyl also can you do. If you have a rough leather finger gloves will make your fingers feel slippery and will be useful if your partner's clitoris is very sensitive. Rubber gloves or vinyl gloves are also useful if you insert your fingers into the vagina during the massage because the nails of your hand can scratch the vaginal walls.

Maintaining a Physical Relationship
Try to keep physical contact with a partner, before doing the massage. You will realize the sexual power that flows between you and your mate, sounds weird but it's true.Achieving everything you need with your hands. Why not try your
touched her knees, stretching out your hands into the inner thigh, and finally got into her vulva, rather than through private place so quickly. Directly touching your cold hand on her vulva will surprise even can ruin her mood. Warm water and a little lubricant will help you make it more relaxed.

Basic Technique
The size and condition of the clitoris to determine how many fingers you can use. If you can find a place and feel the shaft of her clitoris with your fingers, you can use your thumb and forefinger. If she has a clitoris that grow well you can use your thumb, index and other fingers. But if you can not hold the shaft and glans clitoris because it is too small or hidden, you can use the tip of the index finger or maybe just your thumb alone.

If you can hold her clitoris with just two or three fingers, you can do the following: Hold the rod gently her clitoris with your thumb or your index finger. Gently push the cover layer of soft tissue around her clitoris, from back to front (back and forth), feel the main form of the clitoris. Determine how much tissue along the stem. Maybe you do not want to hold the tissue was first, but if her clitoris is small you will not be able to avoid it.

As you push your fingers along the trunk from the rear to the front, her hood should also be pushed from behind and so on, to stimulate the glans. Do it slowly and see your partner to find out if he's enjoying what you do or do not, try to keep each other face-to-eye with him if possible. If you are unable to see his reaction through body language, ask him if you did make him feel comfortable. Always keep your communications.

If you absolutely can not hold her clitoris, try to place the tip of your index finger on top of the body or the head of her clitoris clitoris, it will show what parts are most sensitive, moving back and forth to stimulate her clitoris and made him an erection, even if the clitoris is very small and hidden .

Continue rubbing her clitoris, if she is enjoying what you do go ahead in a fixed tempo. As he increasingly eager you can slowly and gently increase the amount of pressure you. Your speed may vary rubbed, slow beginning and faster as she approached orgasm. Keep your finger always in the skin covering the clitoris body, to facilitate sliding back and forth along the hole. Continue until she reaches orgasm.

Soon after her orgasm sweep change becomes very light, during the sensitive clitoris, or move your fingers to her labia. After a few minutes you can start again or quit.Never stop massaging abruptly unless he says he is so sensitive to touch. Maintain physical relations as long as he felt her orgasms have declined.

Sexual Fantasy
During the massage invite women for sexual fantasy, a good start if he's thinking about the massage itself. Give him time to fantasize while closing his eyes, making every muscle in his body relaxed. This will make the massage feel more comfortable.